by Lizzie Franz, member St. Philip Lutheran Church
When people asked me why I wanted to go on this trip, I
didn't really have an answer. Mostly, it
was just "why not?" I never had any emotional pull towards this trip
in particular but a few days before we left, I realized why I was excited to be
going. Now that I'm here I can totally
agree with everything that I was feeling.
I worked at Caroline Furnace for four full summers and
one of the reasons I always love going home (there) is because it was a place
of little worry - from the outside world at least. I can go there and just be. Be myself and be in the moment with those
around me. This summer when I was there, I found myself using the wifi that was
available too often. I was very excited
about why the wifi is there - so that we can share the real world of living
with God with what we often think of as the real world back home - but instead
I found myself snapchatting and using imessage to chat with friends and not
focus on the world around me. I finally realized afterwards that I have become
so attached to technology that I can't even go one day without seeing if I have
any Facebook notifications or any funny tweets on my Twitter feed. That was
when I realized that I really need a break to break me from that habit and what
better way than to travel into a country where none of my technology works.
My favorite thing to do is be with other people, enjoy
their company and have genuine relationships with them. That's hard to do when
you have a cell phone in your hand that is distracting you. Here in Malawi,
they do actually have cell phones but they use them to make
"arrangements". Before we came, Kathleen and Pastor Kelly explained
to us that we would be living on Malawi time - a flexible, ever changing
schedule and so far that has definitely been true.
We arrived at the Lilongwe airport which was pretty easy
going except that we weren't allowed to walk the 100 yards to the
terminal. Instead, we had to wait for
the bus to come back since the people on the first bus wouldn't scoot over so
we could fit. It took us a little longer to get through the airport than we
would have liked, but that's ok because we were taken off earlier than
originially planned to the grocery store.
We got the opportunity to visit with the representatives from the
Northwest Wisconsin Synod on their last day and learn more about their
partnership with the Lutheran Church in Malawi.
Our first plan for the day on Monday was to meet with the
Bishop, but since it was a holy day, that got postponed until Tuesday. Instead
we spent most of the hanging out and being with the people of Malawi, which was
so fun. We got to play frisbee and
soccer with some of the children. We
also got to go to the mill, but instead of getting to see them ground the corn
into flour, we got to watch them try to fix the machine and in the meantime
teach each other English/Chichewa.
Tuesday morning we met with the Bishop and got on the
road a little later than we were originally supposed to. We also are now
staying in Mponela instead of Madisi because of a power outage, but that's all
ok. We got to visit with two of the ELDS
projects that are going on here in Malawi and both of them were extremely cool
to see. It's amazing what God's people
can do with a little help from their brothers and sisters figuring out what
they need and getting them there. After these three days here, even though our
plans have changed many times, I don't feel like I've missed anything. In these
moments, being with the people here is all I need. We are able to enjoy each other and what is
happening, even in the craziness that is Malawi time.
Don't get me wrong - I still want to know how you all are
doing and what you've been up to while I'm gone, but it can wait until we can
have a nice long chat and really enjoy each others company. And I still will snapchat you but I hope you
can understand if I don't respond to yours right away.
The need to feel known and loved is most truly satisfied
by really being with the people around you.
Having your phone attached to you is a hard habit to break but it's one
that's worth it. Even in the past three days, it has really come back to me how
great a feeling that is. I'm excited to
return to my real world and live a life where I can focus more on the people
around me than technology. Sometimes God
gives us gifts that will satisfy us in ways that we didn't imagine
originally. I am so blessed to be given the
opportunity to be here, be with the people around me and be reminded of ways
that we can show God's love to those around us.